Coach’s Challenge for 1/18/10
Good day, team,
Toward the end of last year, I asked some of my clients to answer three questions in preparation for 2010. Answering these questions is a useful exercise at the beginning of a new year, since they force us to focus on what we want to let go of and what we want more of in our professional and personal lives.
Here are the questions I posed:
1) What would you like to do differently this year (old habits you’d prefer not to repeat; dealing with something you avoided last year; creating an opportunity to innovate)?
2) What would you like more of in your professional life? What do you need to do to get it?
3) What would you like more of in your personal life? What do you need to do to get it?
I also recently read a Harvard Business Review blog (http://blogs.hbr.org/cs/2010/01/three_questions_executives_sho.html) that posed three other good questions:
1) If there was only one thing I could do to improve my business, what would it be and how would I make it happen?
2) If there was only one thing I could focus on to improve my personal performance, what would that be and how would I make it happen?
3) What messages am I not listening to or refusing to confront in my business and personal performance and how am I going to overcome that this year?
If we pause to reflect before embarking on a new beginning, we give ourselves a chance to make better, more intentional decisions about direction, goals and courses of action. We are often so busy with our day-to-day tasks that we don’t rise above the daily to-do list to get a broader viewpoint. These questions require us to think through what’s come before as a springboard for creating a road map for the future. We can review, compare, contrast and analyze possibilities to make important distinctions and, from that insight, better decisions about how to move forward.
If you haven’t done so already, this week ask yourself a few of the above-mentioned questions. The HBR blog encourages the following approach:
“I suggest real interaction with these questions. Don’t just think about them for a minute and then put them aside. Write out answers. Commit to what you’ve written down, and start the year off well.”
Writing your answers down is an excellent way to see if you’re being truthful with yourself. It also encourages more commitment to do what you say you want to do.
January is one of the few times we can demarcate a new start: It’s an opportunity to renew and refresh. Take advantage of this new beginning and ask yourself some good questions. You’ll have a chance to live the questions and the answers all year long.
Have a good week.
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